Как изменить настройки обновления Play Store из приложения для Android

No, it is not possible to change playstore settings from your application, instead you can send user to playstore settings whenever he wants to change the update settings.
you can do this by using below code

try {
  Intent intent = new Intent("com.google.android.finsky.activities.SettingsActivity");
  intent.setClassName("com.android.vending", "com.google.android.finsky.activities.SettingsActivity");
  startActivity(intent);
}
catch(Exception e) {
  e.printStackTrace();
}